Losing the Remote Control: Navigating Faith, Social Media, and the “Digital Fog” of the Next Generation
“Our role is to be a guide and a messenger, not a force of nature.” Accepting Qadr is a journey of the heart, and some paths are steeper than others. We often view death as the ultimate test because of its silence and finality. Grief is a long road, arriving in waves when we least expect it. Yet, there is a different kind of grief in watching the living struggle. We build dreams for our children, hoping to see them flourish in faith and family. But as a teacher, I’ve learned that the human path is rarely a straight line. I have seen the “star student” buckle under the pressures of adulthood, and the “lost child” rise to become a pillar of strength. The struggle with fate often stems from our own desire for control. We mentor and we pour our hearts out, but we must eventually humble ourselves before the truth: The power belongs to Allah, and the journey belongs to the individual. It is painful to see a solution so clearly while the person you love remains s...