“Our role is to be a guide and a messenger, not a force of nature.” Accepting Qadr is a journey of the heart, and some paths are steeper than others. We often view death as the ultimate test because of its silence and finality. Grief is a long road, arriving in waves when we least expect it. Yet, there is a different kind of grief in watching the living struggle. We build dreams for our children, hoping to see them flourish in faith and family. But as a teacher, I’ve learned that the human path is rarely a straight line. I have seen the “star student” buckle under the pressures of adulthood, and the “lost child” rise to become a pillar of strength. he struggle with fate often stems from our own desire for control. We mentor and we pour our hearts out, but we must eventually humble ourselves before the truth: The power belongs to Allah, and the journey belongs to the individual. It is painful to see a solution so clearly while the person you love remains st...
From Chaos to Connection: My Mid-Year Rescue Manual Taking over a classroom mid-year is a bit like jumping onto a moving train—except sometimes the train is off the tracks, the passengers are shouting, and the conductor's seat is empty. I’ve been there. I once stepped into a Grade 7 and 8 Language Arts position where the students’ marks were sitting at 1% or 2%. It wasn't a typo; it was a symptom of a total breakdown in culture. One class had even driven their previous teacher out of the room in tears. If you find yourself in a "notorious" classroom, here is how I moved from damage control to a functioning community in just two weeks. 1. Radical Empathy for the "Rejected" Student When a class is known for disrespect, they usually feel rejected by the school system. They expect you to dislike them. The Mindset: I entered the room ready to connect, not to conquer. The Message: I told them clearly: "I want you to succeed, and I am going to treat you just...