Losing the Remote Control: Navigating Faith, Social Media, and the “Digital Fog” of the Next Generation

“Our role is to be a guide and a messenger, not a force of nature.”

Accepting Qadr is a journey of the heart, and some paths are steeper than others. We often view death as the ultimate test because of its silence and finality. Grief is a long road, arriving in waves when we least expect it. Yet, there is a different kind of grief in watching the living struggle.

We build dreams for our children, hoping to see them flourish in faith and family. But as a teacher, I’ve learned that the human path is rarely a straight line. I have seen the “star student” buckle under the pressures of adulthood, and the “lost child” rise to become a pillar of strength.

he struggle with fate often stems from our own desire for control. We mentor and we pour our hearts out, but we must eventually humble ourselves before the truth: The power belongs to Allah, and the journey belongs to the individual. It is painful to see a solution so clearly while the person you love remains stuck. But this pain reminds us of our true station. We are lamps, not the oil; we provide the light, but we do not control the flame.

Today’s youth navigate a wilderness of TikTok trends and digital noise that makes the wisdom of elders seem like a distant language. It is easy to dismiss these platforms as “fake,” but they are the soil in which our children are growing. To reach them, we must be willing to look into the digital fog — not to join it, but to find them within it. We must understand their anxiety and their isolation if we ever hope to lead them back to connection.

Trusting Allah’s wisdom is not a passive act; it is a stretching of the soul. Even when my heart aches for the Ummah, I find peace in knowing that while the world changes, the One who guides them never does.

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